• shirldapearl commented on the post, despair 8 years, 5 months ago

    Despair is always lurking, isn’t it. You stumble through life trying to make it all work, phone this guy, emailing that women, making — or missing — deadlines, pleasing, pleasing, pleasing. It’s exhausting.

  • shirldapearl commented on the post, admit 8 years, 11 months ago

    why can’t you just admit it? We’re done. Letting us just spiral down into a black hole of noncommunication is cruel. Simple as that. You say you never complain and never think of yourself. Well, this is the ultimate self-centeredness.

  • one of the most indistinct things in the world is understanding where a relationship is at. Why cant we just put it out there — simply, directly, non-dramalike.